No matter what, we define ourselves by whatever or whoever we spend the most time with. If you feel hated you probably define yourself by something or someone that makes you feel that way.  On the contrary, we feel loved when we are defined by love itself.  God is love.

I understand why people act the way they do.  Humans know how they ought act and they choose not to.  It’s a conscious decision that each and everyone of us makes.  What I don’t understand is how people can deliberately make decisions that injure OTHERS, emotionally, physically, mentally, emotionally.

Is it the classic, “I’ve been wronged, thus I’ll wrong,” scenario or is pure selfishness at the root of it all?

Harder then solving the problem of the ‘perpetrator’ is accepting charity as the ‘prey.’  We’ve all given money to those less fortunate, how many of us have been at the bottom saying, “yes, I’m done, I need help or I’m not going to make it.”  That’s the hard part.

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